Friday, November 21, 2008

Photo Phriday w/ a side of Pep Talk!

So this picture is from a couple of years ago, right before I hurt myself at the gym and the baby leg fiasco took over my life. It didn't have to take over my life, I let it. I could have stopped it. Only it became the perfect excuse to backslide right back into a comfortable size 24. I worked too hard to lose that 80lbs. Trained, ate well, felt great and now look at me right back where I started.

Bad habits and self doubt aren't easy to defeat. They sneak up on you and sabotage your subconscious. You medicate with the drug of choice, food because that's what's easy, comforting and time tested.

I struggle with having the strength to try again. Sisyphus should be my middle name. Only Marsden is, and if you break that down into Mars and Den.
Which by definition are:

Mars
1 : the Roman warrior god, the son of Juno and Jupiter, husband of Bellona, and the lover of Venus. He was the most prominent of the military gods that were worshipped by the Roman legions.

2 : The martial Romans considered him second in importance only to Jupiter. A lover and a fighter who never liked to lose at anything.

Den
1 : to assail with loud continued noise 2 : to impress by insistent repetition
which refers to the fear that never leaves my turbulent mind, that I might actually be worth the effort to begin with, that my life can and will be extraordinary. So Mars must defeat the inner threat, to silence the noise of doubt and extinguish what's left of the grand art of keeping me trapped in a life that is not mine but is of my making.

Every journey starts with one step, this journey has been a cha-cha. So enough, the god of war is tired and misses her skinny jeans. Health, wealth and happiness await let's not waste another day.

footnote : Den is actually spelled Din but spelling isn't everything, storytelling is.....

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Another Year....

Mom, you're 69 today. I've blogged before about it, but this year I'll just say, Happy Birthday! I wouldn't have traded my 26 years with you for anything & I'd do it all again.

Love,
Missy

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Casting Call

The Addams Family - The Musical
Grandmama:
50s – 70s. Caucasian woman, ancient. Good-natured, easily led. Very active for her age. She's like the ladies you see in Fairway: of indeterminate age, but you don't get in their way or they'll run you over. Character singer with strong humor. PRINCIPAL



Clearly they haven't seen this lady...and if she showed up at Fairway I'm sure she would be booted to the curb.

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Almost....

Well I ALMOST made it a whole year without a head cold. But just as we rounded into November, I managed to get a sore throat with matching aches and sneezes. Nothing more depressing that an old Queen with a head cold.

To add insult to injury it happened on Friday ruining a whole weekend. The weather has been damp and rainy as hell so it's no wonder I finally got snagged. The only thing I hate about living alone is that there is no one to take of you when you are sick.

Plodding out into the world for soup, tissues, and ginger ale in your sweats and ponytail trying NOT to look like death is completely depressing. Not to mention there is no sympathy or cool cloth for your feverish brow. Obviously this makes me miss my mother. Who was the best at making you feel better even when there isn't really anything you can do for a cold but let it run it's course. Her grill cheese and chicken with stars approach never failed or perhaps it was the kiss on the forehead that did they trick?

Who can say. Those footie pajama days are long gone and now I take solace in a furry belly and wet nose who I know if she had thumbs, Kayla would make me soup & grill cheese.

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

YES WE DID!!!

I LOVE THIS SPEECH AND WILL KEEP IT CLOSE WHEN I FORGET MY PLACE IN THIS WORLD! YOU AND ME ANN DIXON COOPER!!!! KEEPING THE FAITH ACTUALLY WORKS!! WHO KNEW??


Remarks of President-Elect Barack Obama-as prepared for delivery
Election Night
Tuesday, November 4th, 2008
Chicago, Illinois


If there is anyone out there who still doubts that America is a place where all things are possible; who still wonders if the dream of our founders is alive in our time; who still questions the power of our democracy, tonight is your answer.

It's the answer told by lines that stretched around schools and churches in numbers this nation has never seen; by people who waited three hours and four hours, many for the very first time in their lives, because they believed that this time must be different; that their voice could be that difference.

It's the answer spoken by young and old, rich and poor, Democrat and Republican, black, white, Hispanic, Asian, Native American, gay, straight, disabled and not disabled - Americans who sent a message to the world that we have never been a collection of Red States and Blue States: we are, and always will be, the United States of America.

It's the answer that led those who have been told for so long by so many to be cynical, and fearful, and doubtful of what we can achieve to put their hands on the arc of history and bend it once more toward the hope of a better day.

It's been a long time coming, but tonight, because of what we did on this day, in this election, at this defining moment, change has come to America.

I just received a very gracious call from Senator McCain. He fought long and hard in this campaign, and he's fought even longer and harder for the country he loves. He has endured sacrifices for America that most of us cannot begin to imagine, and we are better off for the service rendered by this brave and selfless leader. I congratulate him and Governor Palin for all they have achieved, and I look forward to working with them to renew this nation's promise in the months ahead.

I want to thank my partner in this journey, a man who campaigned from his heart and spoke for the men and women he grew up with on the streets of Scranton and rode with on that train home to Delaware, the Vice President-elect of the United States, Joe Biden.

I would not be standing here tonight without the unyielding support of my best friend for the last sixteen years, the rock of our family and the love of my life, our nation's next First Lady, Michelle Obama. Sasha and Malia, I love you both so much, and you have earned the new puppy that's coming with us to the White House. And while she's no longer with us, I know my grandmother is watching, along with the family that made me who I am. I miss them tonight, and know that my debt to them is beyond measure.

To my campaign manager David Plouffe, my chief strategist David Axelrod, and the best campaign team ever assembled in the history of politics - you made this happen, and I am forever grateful for what you've sacrificed to get it done.

But above all, I will never forget who this victory truly belongs to - it belongs to you.

I was never the likeliest candidate for this office. We didn't start with much money or many endorsements. Our campaign was not hatched in the halls of Washington - it began in the backyards of Des Moines and the living rooms of Concord and the front porches of Charleston.

It was built by working men and women who dug into what little savings they had to give five dollars and ten dollars and twenty dollars to this cause. It grew strength from the young people who rejected the myth of their generation's apathy; who left their homes and their families for jobs that offered little pay and less sleep; from the not-so-young people who braved the bitter cold and scorching heat to knock on the doors of perfect strangers; from the millions of Americans who volunteered, and organized, and proved that more than two centuries later, a government of the people, by the people and for the people has not perished from this Earth. This is your victory.

I know you didn't do this just to win an election and I know you didn't do it for me. You did it because you understand the enormity of the task that lies ahead. For even as we celebrate tonight, we know the challenges that tomorrow will bring are the greatest of our lifetime - two wars, a planet in peril, the worst financial crisis in a century. Even as we stand here tonight, we know there are brave Americans waking up in the deserts of Iraq and the mountains of Afghanistan to risk their lives for us. There are mothers and fathers who will lie awake after their children fall asleep and wonder how they'll make the mortgage, or pay their doctor's bills, or save enough for college. There is new energy to harness and new jobs to be created; new schools to build and threats to meet and alliances to repair.

The road ahead will be long. Our climb will be steep. We may not get there in one year or even one term, but America - I have never been more hopeful than I am tonight that we will get there. I promise you - we as a people will get there.

There will be setbacks and false starts. There are many who won't agree with every decision or policy I make as President, and we know that government can't solve every problem. But I will always be honest with you about the challenges we face. I will listen to you, especially when we disagree. And above all, I will ask you join in the work of remaking this nation the only way it's been done in America for two-hundred and twenty-one years - block by block, brick by brick, calloused hand by calloused hand.

What began twenty-one months ago in the depths of winter must not end on this autumn night. This victory alone is not the change we seek - it is only the chance for us to make that change. And that cannot happen if we go back to the way things were. It cannot happen without you.

So let us summon a new spirit of patriotism; of service and responsibility where each of us resolves to pitch in and work harder and look after not only ourselves, but each other. Let us remember that if this financial crisis taught us anything, it's that we cannot have a thriving Wall Street while Main Street suffers - in this country, we rise or fall as one nation; as one people.

Let us resist the temptation to fall back on the same partisanship and pettiness and immaturity that has poisoned our politics for so long. Let us remember that it was a man from this state who first carried the banner of the Republican Party to the White House - a party founded on the values of self-reliance, individual liberty, and national unity. Those are values we all share, and while the Democratic Party has won a great victory tonight, we do so with a measure of humility and determination to heal the divides that have held back our progress. As Lincoln said to a nation far more divided than ours, "We are not enemies, but friends...though passion may have strained it must not break our bonds of affection." And to those Americans whose support I have yet to earn - I may not have won your vote, but I hear your voices, I need your help, and I will be your President too.

And to all those watching tonight from beyond our shores, from parliaments and palaces to those who are huddled around radios in the forgotten corners of our world - our stories are singular, but our destiny is shared, and a new dawn of American leadership is at hand. To those who would tear this world down - we will defeat you. To those who seek peace and security - we support you. And to all those who have wondered if America's beacon still burns as bright - tonight we proved once more that the true strength of our nation comes not from our the might of our arms or the scale of our wealth, but from the enduring power of our ideals: democracy, liberty, opportunity, and unyielding hope.

For that is the true genius of America - that America can change. Our union can be perfected. And what we have already achieved gives us hope for what we can and must achieve tomorrow.

This election had many firsts and many stories that will be told for generations. But one that's on my mind tonight is about a woman who cast her ballot in Atlanta. She's a lot like the millions of others who stood in line to make their voice heard in this election except for one thing - Ann Nixon Cooper is 106 years old.

She was born just a generation past slavery; a time when there were no cars on the road or planes in the sky; when someone like her couldn't vote for two reasons - because she was a woman and because of the color of her skin.

And tonight, I think about all that she's seen throughout her century in America - the heartache and the hope; the struggle and the progress; the times we were told that we can't, and the people who pressed on with that American creed: Yes we can.

At a time when women's voices were silenced and their hopes dismissed, she lived to see them stand up and speak out and reach for the ballot. Yes we can.

When there was despair in the dust bowl and depression across the land, she saw a nation conquer fear itself with a New Deal, new jobs and a new sense of common purpose. Yes we can.

When the bombs fell on our harbor and tyranny threatened the world, she was there to witness a generation rise to greatness and a democracy was saved. Yes we can.

She was there for the buses in Montgomery, the hoses in Birmingham, a bridge in Selma, and a preacher from Atlanta who told a people that "We Shall Overcome." Yes we can.

A man touched down on the moon, a wall came down in Berlin, a world was connected by our own science and imagination. And this year, in this election, she touched her finger to a screen, and cast her vote, because after 106 years in America, through the best of times and the darkest of hours, she knows how America can change. Yes we can.

America, we have come so far. We have seen so much. But there is so much more to do. So tonight, let us ask ourselves - if our children should live to see the next century; if my daughters should be so lucky to live as long as Ann Nixon Cooper, what change will they see? What progress will we have made?

This is our chance to answer that call. This is our moment. This is our time - to put our people back to work and open doors of opportunity for our kids; to restore prosperity and promote the cause of peace; to reclaim the American Dream and reaffirm that fundamental truth - that out of many, we are one; that while we breathe, we hope, and where we are met with cynicism, and doubt, and those who tell us that we can't, we will respond with that timeless creed that sums up the spirit of a people:

Yes We Can. Thank you, God bless you, and may God Bless the United States of America.

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

ROLLING THE DICE & CHANGING THE WORLD!!

I VOTED!!!

There was no line at lunch time at my polling place, and I was happy to stand in a gym at a Catholic School to vote my little democratic heart out. Pausing only briefly before throwing the lever to take in my moment of "mattering" in this election process.

It came down to me alone in a voting booth from 1956. (really can't we figure out a better system?) I mean Christ the credit card people keep excellent track of ALL of OUR debt, they can track our carbon foot print and we can download books into Kendall's through the air. Surely they can figure out how to record our votes without us having to go back in time.

Now we wait. All of us. Wait to see if we can really change to world in one day.
Please God, give a brother a chance!!!